Netflix's popular show, Bridgerton, has come under scrutiny for a controversial scene that should have been left out. Based on a romance novel by Julia Quinn, the show diverges from the book on several points, making it even more confusing why this upsetting scene was included. The scene in question involves the main characters, Daphne Bridgerton and Simon, the Duke of Hastings, in a forced marriage. Before their wedding, Simon tells Daphne that he cannot have children, which does not deter her from marrying him. However, it is later revealed that Simon had made a vow to his dying father not to have children, and he can actually procreate.

Daphne, who is unaware of this, discovers that using the pull-out method is preventing her from getting pregnant. In the book, she takes advantage of a drunken and unconscious Simon to conceive a child without his consent, which was criticized by readers.

In the TV adaptation, the scene is altered, with Simon fully conscious and Daphne's decision appearing more premeditated. However, the show fails to address the disturbing nature of Daphne's actions and instead presents both characters as equally at fault for the state of their marriage.

The show also muddles the narrative by implying that Daphne's actions were "wretched" when Lady Whistledown's narration was actually referring to another character, Marina Thompson. This lack of acknowledgment and consequences for Daphne's actions perpetuates harmful tropes and fails to address the issue of sexual assault.

Furthermore, the show reinforces the troublesome trope of lack of communication in relationships. It would have been refreshing to see Daphne and Simon engage in open and honest conversation about their feelings and motives instead of resorting to lies and manipulation. By perpetuating this idea, the show presents a poor model for viewers, implying that deception and hurt are normal or even romantic aspects of a relationship.

One aspect that adds to the frustration is the double standard regarding gender roles. If the genders were reversed in this scene, Daphne's actions would be clearly recognized as sexual assault. In a world where male victims of sexual assault are often treated with less seriousness and sensitivity than women, it is disappointing that a progressive and sex-positive show like Bridgerton failed to handle the scene appropriately or omit it altogether.

In conclusion, the inclusion of a problematic scene in Bridgerton has sparked controversy and disappointment. The lack of consequences for Daphne's actions and the perpetuation of harmful tropes undermine the show's potential. By failing to address sexual assault and promote healthy communication in relationships, Bridgerton missed an opportunity to provide a more thoughtful and responsible narrative.